[META/MOD] More README shenanigans.

README.MD

@@ -1,5 +1,4 @@
 # Parsee - the jealous XMPP<=>Matrix bridge
-<img src="https://img.shields.io/liberapay/receives/Parsee.svg?logo=liberapay"><br>
 Parsee is a Matrix<=>XMPP bridge written in C99, with Cytoplasm, similar to Bifrost, 
 but it is NOT a drop-in replacment.
 
@@ -34,7 +33,26 @@ change a few variables (you can set `CYTO_INC` and `CYTO_LIB`)
 Parsee tries to avoid dependencies aside from [Cytoplasm](https://git.telodendria.io/Telodendria/Cytoplasm).
 
 ## RUNNING
-TODO
+First off, you may want to configure Parsee by running the `config` tool(generally named 
+`parsee-config` in most cases), with the correct flags, like here.
+```sh
+parsee-config \
+    -d data/ \
+    -m 'https://media.blow.hole/' \ # You will need to reverse proxy media.blow.hole to point 
+                                    # to Parsee (port 7642)
+    -H 'blow.hole' \ # Matrix homeserver name
+    -J 'parsee.blow.hole' \ # XMPP component host, must be reachable
+    -s 'A very secure XMPP component secret' \
+    -p 5347
+```
+
+If everything goes well, it should generate a `parsee.json` file.
+
+To start Parsee, run it in the same directory as the `parsee.json`. It should start properly 
+and produce a `parsee.yaml` file, which you can chuck into your Matrix homeserver. To test 
+if the homeserver can talk to Parsee, try reaching it over HTTP at the port 7642. If it returns 
+with a landing page, then this side works. You can read it for some more information.
+
 
 ## DOCS
 TODO
@@ -83,3 +101,10 @@ to make Parsee easier to setup and manage.
 You may also donate to [the LiberaPay](https://en.liberapay.com/Parsee), alongside 
 [Telodendria's](https://en.liberapay.com/Telodendria), as it is the project 
 currently maintaining Cytoplasm.
+
+## IM chats
+Please avoid asking for help/issues here. If you *really* want, you may just open 
+an issue and link it over it. Basic respect for others/not being an asshat is required.
+(Also, these are temporary room aliases.)
+- [#parsee:tedomum.net](https://matrix.to/#/%23parsee:tedomum.net)
+- [parsee@conference.monocles.eu](xmpp:parsee@conference.monocles.eu?join)