[ADD/TOOL] Add -j flag for parsee-config

etc/man/man1/parsee-config.1

@@ -1,6 +1,6 @@
 ." The last field is the codename, by the way.
 ." ALL MANPAGES FOR PARSEE ARE UNDER PUBLIC DOMAIN 
-.TH parsee-config 1 "Parsee Utility" "star-of-hope"
+.TH parsee-config 1 "Parsee Utility" "lunar-rainbow"
 
 .SH NAME
 parsee-config - generate a basic configuration file
@@ -11,6 +11,7 @@ parsee-config
 .B [-s SHARED_SECRET]
 .B [-m MEDIA_URL]
 .B [-J JABBER_HOST]
+.B [-j JABBER_ADDR]
 .B [-p JABBER_PORT]
 .B [-d DATABASE]
 .B [-M MAX_STANZA]
@@ -34,6 +35,7 @@ $ parsee-config \\
     -H 'blow.hole' \\
     -s 'The Dark Shared Secret' \\
     -J 'xmpp.blow.hole' \\
+    -j 'localhost' \\
     -S 128
 .fi
 .if n \{\
@@ -68,6 +70,12 @@ media. It must be publicly accessible (behind a reverse proxy to HTTP:7642)
 .I JABBER_HOST
 is used as the component host for Parsee.
 .TP
+.BR -j JABBER_ADDR
+.I JABBER_ADDR
+can optionally be used to change the hostname Parsee will try to contact 
+for XMPP. Users should ideally use localhost (or a hostname pointing to 
+the server itself), as XMPP component streams are not encrypted.
+.TP
 .BR -p JABBER_PORT
 .I JABBER_PORT
 is used as the component post for Parsee. Parsee uses it alongside