[MOD] Check presence of MUC room in priority

I _hate_ you.

README.MD

@@ -42,8 +42,8 @@ TODO
     we _might_ just manage to get some system that can at least emulate that, 
     and hopefully be reasonably faster than the filesystem, with some added 
     reliability.
-- Starting a DM from XMPP to a Matrix user(and also get rid of the '?'-syntax and 
+- Get rid of the '?'-syntax and use another invalid Matrix char/valid XMPP char 
-use another invalid Matrix char/valid XMPP char ('$'?) for escaped)
+('$'?) for escaped
 
 - PROPER FUCKING AVATARS
     XEP-0084 IS THE WORST PIECE OF SHIT KNOWN TO MAN. If any Jabberbros want to 
@@ -55,13 +55,8 @@ restricted to Parsee admins, with permission from MUC owners, too
     only if Parsee admins are good-willed, which we must assume such statment to 
     be false by default.
 - Look at XEPS-TBD.TXT for XEPs to be done
-- Achievements
+- Manage MUC DMs in a reasonable manner. Thanks `@freeoffers4u:matrix.org` for being 
-### Why?
+a fucking annoyance and DMing an old Parsee semi-anon user for no clear reason.
-> "[...] and it [BoVeX] has an achievement system, because another thing I don't like is 
-> when software will not acknowledge that you've reached an obscure error state, essentially 
-> outsmarting it."
-
-- [Tom Murphy VII](http://tom7.org)
 
 ## DONATING/CONTRIBUTING
 If you know things about XMPP or Matrix, yet aren't familiar with C99, or just

src/XMPPThread/Stanzas/Message.c

@@ -182,7 +182,7 @@ MessageStanza(ParseeData *args, XMLElement *stanza, XMPPThread *thr)
      * ISSUE. 
      *
      * I HATE THIS. I NEED TO FIND A BETTER WAY. */
-    if (!room)
+    if (mroom_id)
     {
         if (strncmp(HashMapGet(stanza->attrs, "to"), "parsee@", 7))
         {