quick_frontend, primitivus: fixes a couple of issues:

- chat: notification was raising an error when you just entered the room and self.nick is None
    - quick_widget: deleting a widget was modifying a dict while looping on it + unselect widget when it's being deleted

frontends/src/quick_frontend/quick_contact_list.py

@@ -249,6 +249,9 @@ class QuickContactList(QuickWidget):
         self._cache.clear()
         self._groups.clear()
         self._specials.clear()
+        self._special_extras.clear()
+        self._roster.clear()
+        self._alerts.clear()
         self.update()
 
     def setContact(self, entity, groups=None, attributes=None, in_roster=False):

frontends/src/quick_frontend/quick_widgets.py

@@ -232,9 +232,12 @@ class QuickWidgetsManager(object):
         widget_to_delete.onDelete()
 
         for widget_map in self._widgets.itervalues():
+            to_delete = set()
             for hash_, widget in widget_map.iteritems():
                 if widget_to_delete is widget:
-                    del widget_map[hash_]
+                    to_delete.add(hash_)
+            for hash_ in to_delete:
+                del widget_map[hash_]
 
 
 class QuickWidget(object):
@@ -308,3 +311,6 @@ class QuickWidget(object):
     def onDelete(self):
         """Called when a widget is deleted"""
         log.debug(u"deleting widget {}".format(self)) # Must be implemented by frontends
+        if self.host.selected_widget == self:
+            self.host.selected_widget = None
+